Psalms 38-40
The Psalmist wisely encouraged healthy restraint on the tongue. In effect, he said “put on the mute button when around evil, ungodly people.” [Ps. 39:1]
I learned a painful lesson on this note when I made a sarcastic comment to a “friend?” with a contrasting political flavor. I pushed a button that reaped the whirlwind. After apologizing profusely, I was actually dis-fellowshipped. Needless to say, I have applied new limits to my political humor.
When we think we can say “cute” things, beware … we may have walked into a relationship-curbing trap. Hence, the admonition to keep our mouths in check with a bridle. When God by His Spirit gives us an opening to say edifying things, we will know it.