2 Sam. 19 [The Message]

Sad to say, some people only kiss up to you when you are THE MAN… er, the person in authority. Israel brought David back to Jerusalem to take his place as king again since Absalom was dead. Even ol’ Shimei, the descendant of Saul who cursed him every step of his way as he fled for his life, even he was all “nicey-nicey” as David returned. Some people are like that. They are two-faced. They flatter you when you are in charge, but treat you like dung as soon as you leave power.

I have personally experienced this. Before I retired as Headmaster of Trinity Christian School, certain people could really “kiss up” and make me feel like they were my best friend. Then, when I was no longer the one in charge, they changed. It sort of hurts. They really weren’t your friend for who you are. They just wanted a perceived advantage for being close to you.

Then there are the REAL people who treat you the same and show their true colors. It’s as if you have a whole new appreciation for the quality and integrity of these good people. You REALLY have a friend.