1 Kings 1 [The Message]
Scripture indicates that David DID NOT bring correction to his son Adonijah as he grew up. Here was a young man who felt he should be the one to succeed David as king. He promoted himself and arranged a pseudo-crowning while David was old and weak. Long story short, Nathan the Prophet and the king’s true inner-core pleaded with David to follow through on his promise that Solomon would be the new king. So it was … Solomon was anointed the true king.
Adonijah did not really know who he was. His self-esteem was skewed because of his upbringing. He didn’t know it was wrong to promote yourself, among many other indications of a man who felt entitled.
Wholesome chastisement is a blessing to children. When they cross the line, their loving parent is the one who restores a humble, accurate view of life.